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What Will You Do When?

We see the need for Pivot Planning all the time. Mom or Dad is enjoying their retirement and things are well with the family. Then one of them suffers an unexpected health event. Everyone is caught off guard and no one knows what to do. But since there is a need to act quickly, sometimes the family is forced into making a rash choice. This choice may be good or it may be bad. A quick decision had to be made and sometimes that decision was driven by emotion.

None of us has a crystal ball so none of us know what will happen in the future. Many of life’s happenings could not have been predicted. However, with some situations, you sometimes have a good idea that the thing that actually happened may eventually happen.

For example, maybe your Mom has become increasingly unsteady on her feet. Something in the back of your mind may have told you that there was a good chance that she could fall and break a hip or otherwise injure herself. This is your clue to start your Pivot Planning process now.

It’s this advance planning for likely future scenarios that we refer to as a Pivot Plan. What will you do if and when something happens?

Pivot Planning Tips

When doing Pivot Planning, think about what is the most likely thing that could happen – then develop a plan around that. If Mom is unsteady on her feet, what would happen if she did fall and break a hip? Where would she go? Could she stay at home with assistance? Are enough family members available to provide needed care? If not, does she have money to pay for outside caregivers? If she has little money, is it possible that she would qualify for government assistance to help pay for in home care?

Facility Options

It’s also good to check out local facilities in advance of the need. When Covid lets up a bit more, it would be good to schedule a tour of Independent Living, Assisted Living and Skilled Nursing Homes in your area. Look to see what services they provide and the cost of care.

Proactive Planning

One thing that you may be able to do is to take action to reduce the probability of something bad happening in the first place. In the above example, would it be possible to remove some trip hazards from Mom’s house; or (2) install some rails or grab bars in the bathroom; or (3) talk to her doctor for a recent medical evaluation.

By taking the Proactive Planning Steps mentioned above AND establishing your Pivot Planning as to what you would do if something bad happened to a declining parent, you will be in a better position to make educated as opposed to emotional decisions if and when something bad does happen.

If you are providing care to a cognitively declining senior, you have our respect. Please seek out assistance rather than trying to do it all yourself. This approach may not be best for you or for the one you love.

Best wishes to you and your family as you work to do the necessary planning for your family.

FREE Phone Consultation

We work with people to do various types of estate, healthcare, and pivot planning. There is no one size fits all plan and no plan is categorically better than others. The key is to meet with your attorney (hopefully us!) to discuss your unique situation and have a plan crafted that is best for you. If you or your declining parent is not 100% sure of their beneficiary designations, please be proactive and give us a call before you (or they) lose capacity.

Without a properly flexible plan, how will you care for your declining Loved One, be there for your family, get work done, and pivot in the event of a crisis? What about cost? How will you pay for it all? If you make the Assisted Living Facility choice, how long will the money last? Together, we can craft a proactive plan! Lets get started protecting your assets!

We are currently offering a FREE 10-Minute Phone Consultation with one of our Elder Law professionals. You can get a jump start on planning as we work together so you don’t need to attempt DIY Estate Planning.

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We have covered some legal topics in this edition and as always, I want to emphasize that (1) the law is different in every state, so if you live in a state other than Arkansas, just know that the law may be totally different in your state; (2) your situation is unique, so one size doesn’t fit all – meaning what we discuss herein may not be right for you; (3) we have purposely over-simplified many of the topics above (otherwise this would be many pages long and unreadable because of all of the legalize). It is imperative that you meet with your attorney (hopefully us!) and get a plan that will work for you. Please don’t attempt DIY Estate Planning based on what you read in this (or any) article AND don’t try to go it alone. Please consider this, get your questions answered and take action.